Sunday, August 05, 2007

this whole episode has taught me a lot. indeed, it has somehow made me stronger.

sumtimes, the decisions u make may result in others hating u. many times, people will judge and try their best to put you down. unnecessary comments, personal attacks, harsh words may be thrown at you. when this happens, dont lose faith in urself. what shapes your character is NOT the events that happened in your life, but the way you RESPOND to the things that happened.

i've learnt to be open to ppl's views and opinions. i've learnt to take things constructively. i've learnt to believe in myself cos what tt doesnt break me will only make me stronger. i've learnt that everything happens for a reason.

sweet memories will never be forgotten
the good times will always live on my mind
thank you for the tribute
and i've clearly gotten your message
no matter what happens
even behind your closed doors
u'd never be a stranger to me
all that i have of us are good memories
in my prayers i ask for your happiness
in this silence between us
i try to speak to you
may your dreams come true
may you achieve all that you aim for in life
God Bless You.

Take care, Pipi.

13 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

STAY STRONG!!!

10:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think it was foolish, throwing away a relationship that you've been cultivating over the years. Are you taking the easy way out? Because it's easier to just walk away than to try and rebuild what was damaged.

It's unfair for one party to decide that something is the "best" for both of them. You don't know for sure.

What did he do that was so wrong, that you chose to break his heart? Did he break yours or cheat on you or what? Both people in a relationship have a responsibility to make it work. Even when they're tired, even when they're fighting, even when things change.

Did you only think about the negative things? Did you ask yourself what he loved and appreciated about you and are they the same things that you've always wanted your lover to recognise about youself? These are real things that count. Not some idealistic picture that you want fulfilled. When you're in a couple you stick together and work through hard times together.

If your guy is still in school or hasn't found a job, you would WAIT if you loved him. Not dump him to pursue your selfish desires.

2:33 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oi enough already lah!! As if she is going to listen to your useless rants. It's already been done and you still want to apply salt to the wound. If you are brave enough stop becoming anonymous and put your real name down, or better still talk to her personally. Blardy internet losers and hypocrites..

3:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I suppose the comment by anonymous in the previous entry who said you are double meluat reeeeallly stung huh? ouch.

Stung sooomuch until u deleted that entire post altogether huh?

Character is how u respond u say...looks like your character is one who can anyhow press delete when it comes to painful comments and move on and put more meluat photos of yourself.

hahahahahaha.

1:32 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh JUST SHUT THE HELL UP! It's already been done. Whatever crap you lay on her, she ain't changing her mind. You mindless fools with your personal attacks. Leave her alone. Even he is not saying anything to her, so why should you.

1:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dah lah makcik pakcik kepo, bebual macam-macam pun tak guna, semua orang fikirkan tentang diri sendiri, mana ada orang fikirkan tentang orang lain? kalau ada jodoh mesti kembali

9:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

2 anonymous above comment whatever anybody say, she aint changing her mind?

errrmm...i believe a lot of people would vomit blood if she did change her mind and got back together with him.

hahahahha

11:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just dont get it why you need to advertise to the cyberworld that you had broken up with your guy of god-damn-how-many-years. I thought personal things should be kept in privacy and confidential and not to blab about it to everyone. What are you trying to prove anyway?

In my opinion, hes too good for you anyway. And seriously lady, stop giving mere excuses. You have no idea how much you hurt him. Just remember that KARMA will BESIEGE in. God Bless

12:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear anonymous(s),

Please DO NOT post harsh comments in other people's blog. To prevent further complication, the thread is officially CLOSED


============CLOSED============

10:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

it's really hard huh?

god bless u :)

8:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

nak break, break aje la..
tak payah nak tayang tayang...
wow.... you deleted the previous anonymous posts pasal the 'double meluat'?
why?
tak boleh angkat per?
tak boleh accept?

anyways, its true...
nak step mentel mentel ngan jantan lain...
guys really bad mouthed you, you know...
nak step sweet?
eeewww....
short-and-sweet?
self proclaim sweet ker per minah?

and its true, i realised, during wan's family gathering, YOU WERE NEVER INVITED!!!...not even a single of your face in their family events' pictures...
even time kakak dia kawin, a real big event.... muker si 'hitam' takde pun?
kesian, si 'pendek dan gelap dan body-less'

anyways, as i said and some of the fellow commentors, usually people nak break, we dont advertise seluruh dunia.
Nak bilang the guys yang kau mentel-miang-miangkan that you are single?
haha...

and, too sad and too bad... somebody dont want me to comment?
she tried to block me from commenting....
ish ish ish...

so you accept comments, but only good comments about you?
the negative comments, terus kena block?

and i see, there's more negative than postive comments...
but, you just delete the negative ones... (so nak step kau budak baik ah....)

and who am i?
someone really close...
kau dah tahu aku siaper...
call aku...
slalu aku panggil kau si pendek tembam...
so, no one knows me, except si pendek yang tulis blog ni...

2:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

memang banyak orang damn si pendek ni...
time nak tunggu chance untuk fire aje...
now, she no longer with wan, we get to express all of our feelings!!!!
FINALLY!

but kesian, she deleted all the negative comments...
why?
two faced?
cos she dont want people to know she has really many bad points?

just like she two-faced wan?
step baik baik, but behind him, menggatal macam nak rak?

girls:meluat aku tengok si fazleen
guys:lagi meluat, dia nak tangkat jambu depan kitorang, but got nothing to show (double meluat)


Masya-allah...

2:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yawnsss....
How can you possibly use the phrase Masya-Allah when you're happily degrading a person like that.
ASTAGHFIRULLAH HAL AZIM

11:16 PM  

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