was looking through mas and kima's wedding pics.. felt a tad emotional for a while..my friends for over ten years...shared their good and bad times.. and now they are happily settled down with their Mr Right.. how nice kan.. hehe.. but they are total opposites.. mas had so many chapters.. while kima had like basically only one. one long chapter with a happy fairy tale 'ending'. but either way, they have started a new life now. life as a DUO. hehe.

was watching kpak bing bing. i think its a great show. addressing real issues yet in the most entertaining way. najib ali is a genius. the topic discussed today was on challenges of a marriage. and what the uztadz said is so true. the first challenge newly weds face is to get used to each other's differences. accomodating to each other. that both the guy and girl are from different families with different backgrounds and different lifestyles. its not easy to have two different systems trying to unite as one. and like wat najib asked.. how do you find the similarities amidst the differences..

cos i think most of the time, as humans, we tend to focus on the differences between us and our partners and we complain so much about it.. and in doing so we overlook our similarities which could be our strength..

should we have expectations? according to the experts, yes! its normal and allright to have expectations cos it kinda acts as a guide for the partner to make us happy. i mean we need to know what the other party expects of us so that we know what to do rite.. and its imp to do know what to do cos what we do or dont do can make someone happy or sad..

there were two couples who mentioned about the challenges parents face in bringing up their children...i think parenting is an extremely tough job. coming from a career which moulds the future nation.. i must say that i take my hats off parents who have successfully educate their children to become someone with character and succeed in life in every way that they define it. i've been brought up with a lot lot lot of love, care and attention and i hope to be able to do the same when i do have my own family. insyallah.

so knowledge is very imp in preparing oneself to overcome the challenges in a marriage. Knowledge brings awareness and creates a sense of responsibility. and the best is to have knowledge based on religious grounds. hehe. seeeee.. tho i watched tv, i made sure it was super worthwhile. hehe. *claps*

anways, theres more than 10000 applicants for the bimthly sale of flats. how pathetic. super slim chance now. haiz. so little land for so many people. hehe.

and i miss you every single day. do you know this?